About two months after the demise of Paulinha Abelha (1978/2002), Clevinho, the singer’s widow, is slowly attempting to restart his life. He says the assist of household, associates and religion in God helped them overcome the ache of shedding their spouse after issues with kidney failure after greater than 10 days within the hospital. He at the moment lives with his mom and father-in-law, who are suffering from dementia with low mind mass, requiring 24-hour residence care.
“I’m coming again little by little, on daily basis I bought again as much as transfer on with my life. I’m positive she did not need me to surrender. It was not simple, however with the prayers and power of God, household and associates supporting me, this power makes me need to preserve going”, he says.
in dialog with the On-screenClevinho mentioned that he’ll quickly publish a tune in honor of Paulinha and that he’ll launch himself as a piseiro singer, a venture that was ongoing since final yr and had the assist of singer Calcinha Preta.
“We have now completed the tune, we’re making the clip, it is a venture I’ve had in thoughts since final yr. I like to recommend this to her, a lot of folks will prefer it to him. It’s a tune that talks about my life with Paulinha, I’m positive, it talks about that I miss my love for her. It was a time marked my life together with her.”
Clevinho says it’s tough to decide on what he misses most about his spouse, as the 2 had been inseparable companions. “I miss our video games, the kisses… We spent nearly the entire day collectively, if she went to the salon, I would depart her there, then search for her .play with, I miss her a lot”, she says.
Before going to the hospital, the couple was going by comfortable instances, they had been in a progressive development part and with plans to extend the household, the outdated dream of the singer, who died on the age of 43.
“We had synthetic insemination final August, nevertheless it did not work, the embryo did not develop. We had been going to do it once more this yr after São João, however sadly life shocked us, ending our plans and goals. Her greatest dream in life is to have a baby.”
Clevinho says that the 2 had already chosen the names of their kids: Luna or Lohan and that they had been additionally enthusiastic about adoption, in case the being pregnant didn’t go forward in to feed “She wished to have a baby sooner as a result of of her age,” he says.
In addition to motherhood, Paulinha deliberate to pursue a solo profession sooner or later: “She was at all times a particular person with many plans”, she says.
Paulinha Abelha’s widow invests in his profession as a piseiro singer
In addition to being an influencer, mannequin and dancer, Clevinho launches as a piseiro singer shortly after releasing the tune recorded in honor of the girl. The artist explains that the venture has been occurring since final yr and that he acquired full assist from Paulinha.
“I’m going to sing piseiro, placing the songs on stage. I’ve been taking singing classes since November. As all this occurred, I had no voice nonetheless added the songs. I’m going to say that the discharge date of the songs is after Paulinha’s proposal. and a re-recording of Sonho Lindo. Paulinha supported me in the whole lot, bought we at all times get on very effectively”.
Uncertainty in regards to the trigger of demise of Paulinha Abelha could be very tough for the household
Before her demise, Paulinha was within the hospital for greater than 10 days the place she suffered from a number of issues: kidney failure and liver issues which developed into extra issues. The household employed an knowledgeable physician and printed a report on the trigger of demise, which was “as a consequence of an infectious course of within the Central Nervous System”. Despite this, the widow and members of the household are troubled as a result of they have no idea what brought about this infectious situation within the singer.
“The report can’t determine the actual purpose. I actually wished to know, whether or not it was medicine or not, sadly we do not know. She had kidney failure and in addition liver failure, however what brought about it, we do not know. You cannot detect this even with exams and a biopsy. It could be very tough”, he laments.
Before he went into a coma, Clevinho remembers that the singer was assured in his restoration, however sadly, the state of affairs rapidly worsened. “She was optimistic, she got here in to speak to me, and little by little she turned calmer, a little worse.
“Paulinha was at all times very robust, she by no means complained about ache, it was sudden, very fast.